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sara zata


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Looks like Zanes EX has won, we saw the kids Xmas day and a bit of boxing day, got a photo of my 8 g'kids all together, that will probably be the 1st and last.   Every month we have some sort of drama when he is supposed to have them, I have been upset since New Years Day, with text messages, and phone calls. In the end, I have said to my son I can't go through this anymore, he said you won't have to, I have been deciding this for awhile, I'll be ringing them and telling them that when they are old enough to think for themselves, we will want to see them, untill then, Mum has won. The only thing is, he has a 4.5 yr old that he wont get to know, the others are 12 and 10, so they have taken Jeneika's choice from her by the mother always trying to make trouble. He was supposed to have them xmas eve and xmas day and then take them home in the afternoon on the 27th, he got them at 10 am Xmas day and had to have them back to suit her by 12 pm boxing day.   Sorry for the crap.   XXXXX   June.

-- Edited by sara zata on Thursday 6th of January 2011 08:29:06 AM

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It's ok June. I know how custody and visitation stuff goes. My brother is still going through all that with his ex gf who has 2 of his kids. She's got them all goofed up. Now Meg is 14 so she is seeing how her mother REALLY is. His other 2 kids from his "other" ex gf are grown and they also see how their mother was. All the drama isn't good.
One suggestion is for your son to keep some kind of contact with the kids, even if it's just to keep in contact. If he leaves or doesn't make an effort to keep in contact, then the mother will have won.
My ex had not had contact with my oldest for 14 years, then we saw him at her grandfathers funeral and I actually had to introduce her to her father. But he was a slime that didn't care.

I'm sorry you and your family have to go through this all. You all will be in my prayers. :)

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Hugs June. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know what you're going thru, having been dealing with the same thing myself. My daughter (13yrs) didn't even come see me on Christmas day.

I feel your pain, and totally empathize with you.

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Thanks Pat and Liselle, the onkly thing is, you cant get past her, so there isn't much point in trying. His heart gets broken every month, and he would be at a point in his life if it kept going, like the the past he said he had a tree picked out, so I thi k it is best this way. There is a saying, If you love someone set them free, if they return it was ment to be.............Hugs to you all. XXXXX June.

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Yes, I believe that saying too June. 2 of my brother's kids are grown and have come back to him and see how their mother is. Their eyes are open now! Too bad some parents have to make the kids suffer like that. I never said anything bad about my ex around my daughter. It was HIS choice not to see her. She isn't even telling him that she is pregnant with his only blood grandchild. It's his loss. I am sure when the kids get older, they will see (hopefully) how their mother was and get in touch with their father. I just really hurts right now for him. They are in my prayers June :)

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Thank You Pat. XXXXX June.

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June I'm so sorry that your family has to go through that, keeping you all in my prayers.

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